The relationship you want starts with the one you have with yourself.
Every pattern you've repeated in love, the chasing, the settling, the disappearing act you do right when things get real, started as a way to survive. It made sense once. It doesn't have to run your life anymore. When you stop abandoning yourself to be chosen, you stop attracting people who ask you to. We go to the root of why you learned to shrink in love, so you can show up whole, not performing, not proving, just true. That's when the right relationship stops feeling like something you have to chase.

